http://erika.haub.net/grief-on-facebook/07/ Erika Carney Haub's musings on life and God from South Central, L.A. Wed, 08 Feb 2012 15:15:32 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 http://erika.haub.net/grief-on-facebook/07/comment-page-1/#comment-571319 Claire Perkins Sat, 11 Jul 2009 01:44:51 +0000 http://erika.haub.net/?p=855#comment-571319 Yes, those places where a beloved name should be, but cannot be, can trigger a fresh round of tears. I remember a time about 2 years after losing my son. I had to replace my cell phone and the clerk at the store offered to transfer my contact list to the new phone. He suggested it would be a good time to go through the list on the old phone and remove unnecessary numbers. You have no idea how long I paused and pondered over my son's name on that list. I couldn't delete it. I kept it, but I still went home and cried. Wishing you peace on the journey... Yes, those places where a beloved name should be, but cannot be, can trigger a fresh round of tears. I remember a time about 2 years after losing my son. I had to replace my cell phone and the clerk at the store offered to transfer my contact list to the new phone. He suggested it would be a good time to go through the list on the old phone and remove unnecessary numbers. You have no idea how long I paused and pondered over my son’s name on that list. I couldn’t delete it. I kept it, but I still went home and cried. Wishing you peace on the journey…

]]> http://erika.haub.net/grief-on-facebook/07/comment-page-1/#comment-570744 Jim Fri, 10 Jul 2009 01:14:44 +0000 http://erika.haub.net/?p=855#comment-570744 Good. Tears are our way to make sure their graves are watered until God brings us all home. Jamar is not forgotten. Praise God! Good. Tears are our way to make sure their graves are watered until God brings us all home. Jamar is not forgotten. Praise God!

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